Destiny?

I am of the belief that “Love never fails” it’s really the people who fail. I believe that when you love someone it does not die easily. But I also believe that love is about giving and not getting. You should not expect love in return, you should just love with all your heart and be content you did. Time will heal your wounds. Allow yourself to sorrow and feel the pain for the time of grief will pass. You will learn to live with the break up. If you believe in destiny then you have to know that things happen when they are meant to be. People part for reasons beyond human comprehension but the reality remains, if you are meant to love each other and be with each other, it will happen. That’s the power of destiny. Love always wins. Love is important and only it counts.

Space.. ya diiig?

You don’t have to be together all the time to keep your relationship intact. Be together yet give space to each other, so you can want to be together even more. Encourage each other to spend time for the things they like. Let your partner have fun, they need a social life. If you trust them, then it shouldn’t be a problem. There has to be an open positive exchange of trust. If you keep asking questions and always trying to keep an account of what they’re doing then you are actually not giving them space. There should be openness in your relationship so that both can spend time on their own without the guilt of ignoring each other. It has to be a mutual agreement.

Never deprive yourself of the things you like as you will never be happy with yourself and your partner. You need to love yourself first before you love somebody else. When you do the things you like, you become the individual that your partner loves you for. Give space to yourself and don’t lose your identity. All of us need time to understand and know ourselves better, to do the things we enjoy. It is the key to a healthy relationship. How can you miss your lover when you are always clinging to each other? You have to be apart to miss each other and know the depth of your love. It is only when you are away from your lover, when you realize how much you love and need them

Space.. ya diiig?

You don’t have to be together all the time to keep your relationship intact. Be together yet give space to each other, so you can want to be together even more. Encourage each other to spend time for the things they like. Let your partner have fun, they need a social life. If you trust them, then it shouldn’t be a problem. There has to be an open positive exchange of trust. If you keep asking questions and always trying to keep an account of what they’re doing then you are actually not giving them space. There should be openness in your relationship so that both can spend time on their own without the guilt of ignoring each other. It has to be a mutual agreement.

Never deprive yourself of the things you like as you will never be happy with yourself and your partner. You need to love yourself first before you love somebody else. When you do the things you like, you become the individual that your partner loves you for. Give space to yourself and don’t lose your identity. All of us need time to understand and know ourselves better, to do the things we enjoy. It is the key to a healthy relationship. How can you miss your lover when you are always clinging to each other? You have to be apart to miss each other and know the depth of your love. It is only when you are away from your lover, when you realize how much you love and need them



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Take it slooow

Lately I have been thinking about a lot of things, about life and time and love and everything else in this world. It’s crazy how the speed of life moves so fast, one moment you think you’ve got it all together, and then a week later back down you go. Ever wonder how you got to where you are? Where did the last ten years of your life go? Does it all seem like a blur to you? One minute you’re learning how to tie your shoe, the next minute you’re on your way to school, before you know it, you’re driving, then you’re getting married, and having a few children, it’s crazy. Sometimes I think we are so focused on large big goals that we always fail to realize the small things. We forget to take notice probably the majority of the time because we live in a society that is fast. Impatience is a quality we love to thrive on.

When you live too fast, you pass by many things and you take it all for granted. We live on such a fast track, that when we actually do stop for a minute or two, we are sometimes dumbfounded. “How did I get here” runs through your mind, “I can’t believe the year is almost over” you know? Please know that every day is special. It could be the happiest day of your life, or your last. Knowing that, why not make your days count? We always rush to make others happy, but let’s make ourselves happy. Take the time to support yourself. You will not only feel physically better, but mentally better as well. Take the time to tell people close to you, that you love them; take the time to start that thing you always wanted to do. Take time out for you, because we have one life to live and you don’t want to miss out on it. After all, “life goes by too fast.

He heals the broken hearted and bandages their wounds - Psalm 147:3

I am a firm believer that God does not let bad happen, without having something beautiful come out of it. And I know it’s hard to understand the concept of that statement, but God is good all the time. I have faith and trust that he will take care of whatever difficulties you may be having and or any personal problems one may be facing. Always remember, when the praises go up, the blessings come down.

Know who you are

I find it funny when people say that they want to find the person who knows them better than themselves. All in all, everyone is entitled to their own opinion but I’ve heard this line all too often. It’s dangerous to allow anyone to know you that well. You should be the one who knows yourself inside and out; your fears, wonders, whatever it may be. It doesn’t mean you don’t love them or love them any less. It leaves room for wonder, adventure, mysteries. I don’t want to allow anyone to have that grasp on me. You can love someone without giving them every single portion of you. You don’t have to milk out every single detail that is your being to proclaim that you love someone. I just think that it’s this thought that has caused so many people to fall so hard. You give yourself so much that you forget who you are and what you stand by. People often forget that we are always changing and that nothing lasts forever